Happiness is….
Rory Harper
Tonight, I’d like to check out some of my assumptions and logic chains with you guys.
I have no idea what sort of response I might get to this posting, but I’m very much up for a vigorous and even acrimonious debate if it goes there. You have my explicit permission to be rude to me on this particular one. As if you needed permission.
Rachael (who is Awesome) and I were chatting about our value systems this weekend, as we sometimes do on road trips. Philosophical types, we are.
We both test out to be seriously lower-left on the Political Compass. You can argue about how valid this sort of categorization might be, but my personal experience is that most people who take the test end up muttering “Yeah, I guess that pretty much places me,” when they see the result. A few consider it to be a moronic attempt to describe complex human beliefs on a mere two axes, of course. They’re probably the smart ones.
But it’s a lot better than the simple Left vs. Right paradigm that’s prevalent in this country.
Rach and I are rowdy social-liberal, anti-authoritarian types. We mistrust and despise anybody who wants to be in charge, and we’re down with ‘Live and let live, I don’t care how weird your shit is, as long as you don’t intrude on my space with it’.
I suspect that most of the folks who frequent EOB have a similar attitude.
(Incidentally, people who test lower-left have ALWAYS despised George Bush and the Thug Party. It’s visceral, perhaps not even a choice on our part. We spit at people who test upper-right. It’s a mongoose-snake issue.)
But there’s a place that Rach and I and many friends seem to radically diverge from a lot of the traditional Left.
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Looking back on this post after writing it, I think I should warn you that I kinda sorta free-associated my way through it. I had a plan, but it didn’t survive contact with the enemy keyboard. I blame the tobacco withdrawal symptoms.


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